ONTARIO’s #1 Private Sex Offender Treatment Program

We can help you.

Toronto Relationship Clinic is Ontario’s #1 private sex offender treatment program for men who have hit rock bottom, who are so ashamed of their problematic sexual behaviours, and are ready to change their lives for good.

Our comprehensive outpatient program provides online forensic psychotherapy for men in Ontario, Canada, who struggle with problematic sexual behaviours, whether hands-on or technology-assisted. We specialize in sexual offences involving minors.

We recognize that seeking help can be an incredibly daunting step, especially when you are grappling with feelings of shame, fear, or loneliness. We provide a confidential and compassionate space to address these issues safely and effectively.

Our fully virtual, community-based, intensive forensic treatment program addresses sexual harm, including child sexual abuse, and complex trauma through a transformative justice lens for whole-person healing and survivor-oriented relational justice.

We offer life-changing treatment for people who are facing criminal charges. Some examples of offences that we work with include the following:

 
 
Addressing sexual harm starts with acknowledging you have a problem and accepting the right kind of help.
— Benita Joy, Founder, Director, and Forensic Psychotherapist, Toronto Relationship Clinic
 

Toronto Relationship Clinic's treatment program for addressing sexual harm is a focused course of treatment for men who have sexually offended, whether or not criminal charges have been laid or legal proceedings are underway. Drawing from Interpersonal Neurobiology, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Collaborative Language Systems, our program combines intensive, process-oriented psychotherapy and rigorous group programs. It adapts an integrative, evidence-informed, systems-oriented, and trauma-specific approach to addressing problematic sexual behaviours. It adapts an integrative, systems-oriented, and trauma-specific approach to the treatment of high-risk sexual behaviours. The program is comprehensive, structured, and requires a serious commitment.


How do you assess progress?

Our program addresses the cognitive, emotional, relational, and systemic factors that drive offending behaviours. It is an experiential, generative, psychodynamic process organized around 6 Stages of Progress:

...facing the harm that I caused is an act of profound optimism. It is a choice to grow, to learn, to become someone who is more open and empathetic.
— Danya Ruttenberg, On Repentance and Repair: Making Amends in an Unapologetic World

 

What Makes Us Different?

 
 
Prison ultimately causes a measurable, statistically significant increase in crime and violence; locking people in a system defined by these drivers of violence does, indeed, increase the likelihood that they will cause greater harm in the future. Imprisoning people doesn’t necessarily make our society safer.
— Danya Ruttenburg, On Repentence and Repair: Making Amends in an Unapologetic World
 
 

At Toronto Relationship Clinic, we are dedicated to providing compassionate and respectful care. Our focus is on promoting empathy for victims, encouraging acceptance of responsibility, and ensuring accountability. If you choose to seek support, please be assured that your privacy and confidentiality will be maintained in accordance with the highest ethical standards that govern all regulated mental health professionals.


Our approach to treating harmful sexual behaviours and problematic sexual urges, is recovery-oriented, strengths-based, and person-centred. The “perfect storm” that leads to criminal behaviour happens long before an offence occurs. It often begins with negative childhood experiences, abuse, unresolved trauma, emotional pain, chronic stress, mental illness, or other unidentified and untreated organic factors. These negative experiences are often precipitated and perpetuated by problematic beliefs that uphold both individual and systemic oppression. These negative patterns become amplified over time if individuals do not have the desire, the capacity, or the strategies to effectively challenge or manage them.

It may surprise you how easily old patterns can change when we create the conditions for new, healthy patterns to emerge. Science tells us that the brain can change because of neuroplasticity. Toronto Relationship Clinic can help facilitate change by working with you to identify your strengths and areas for improvement. We can help you learn how to manage your old, negative behaviours by addressing root causes so that new and healthy patterns may emerge. You will learn how to identify the feelings and beliefs that are often precursors to offending behaviour. You will also learn how to identify and deconstruct your triggers, develop empathy, build accountability structures, and practice self-compassion in order to minimize the risk of re-offending.

On the other side of that bridge, on the other side of transformation, is another more whole, more full, more free way of being, one that we can’t fully imagine from here. A way that we must simply bring into existence, step by step.
— Danya Ruttenberg, On Repentance and Repair: Making Amends in an Unapologetic World
 

What about pedophilia?

Research suggests that pedophilia may be a sexual orientation. If you struggle with pedophilia, the first step would be to talk to a professional who can support you as you work through feelings of guilt or shame, towards creating a life that is flourishing, full of joy, and safe.